Working from Home & loosing it

Most of us guys are not always the most well groomed at the best of times! We know how too but self motivation on our looks often goes by the wayside and in times like this it shouldn’t!

It’s been over 3 months for a lot of people working from home and you have gone from a busy office with several people interacting with you every hour to maybe one or two a week. It’s real and we can say we like our own company ( which is great ) but we also need physical interaction. It’s ok to seek help, in fact you should. Text a friend or relative and tell them your not coping, it’s ok. Don’t be silent and try to fix it on your own by ignoring it but also adapt to some Positive self talk it not only helps but can put everything into perspective.

It feels like your trapped

It’s important that you continue to make an effort every day on how you look, because it’s a direct reflection to how you feel so go shower, shave, do your hair and put some fresh clothes on!

Home life balance is a mystery

Whatever you are feeling is most likely normal and we are all feeling it but you need to work out what you need in order to get through it.

If your motivation is at 50% it’s ok

Here are a few health care links for you and if you need someone to talk too help us only a call away. Stay positive we will get through this and life will be amazing.

Open counselling Help line Phone counselling

What is it going to take for you to be happy

I have known so many people in my life that have had that knee jerk comment ” I will be happy when”!

Could be I will be happy when I’m on the beach, happy when you get the new job, happy when something is over, happy when you have money in the bank etc etc. I never got it, it’s like you give power to the situation and are going to be constantly waiting for something to happen before you are happy, which is kind of stupid.

No matter how many followers you have, what color the tick is or even if your on social media, we are all the same! Stop thinking you will be happy when and start being happy now! Sure you may have been screwed over, things didn’t turn out the way you hoped or even the right people all turned out to be wrong. It’s a moment, it’s not forever!

The most famous, well known or successful people I have ever met no matter what the end goal is, all say the same thing. No matter what you achieve, by the time you achieve it, you have already moved onto a bigger goal so you never feel like you have made it.

Destination happiness is a mystery destination you will never reach regardless of how well your last post fetched numbers!