We hear a lot about the challenges that being married to 3 people and not one has and it can obviously be challenging and stressful beyond belief. Some are super lucky snd have managed to set the boundaries very clear while other use mental powers to deal with it but on a daily basis it can be torture!
It’s hard to think that you have to lie to someone for them to back off and let you live you life but at times it’s reality. Well we have discovered the best way to deal with mother in-laws when it comes to the demands of hair that you will love and are super easy!
Yes you could move to Alaska and tell her that don’t have phones, I guess that might help but kind of extreme and to be honest might be a tad cold. If an intervention can’t be done and a civil calm discussion is out of the question then I guess a few “white lies” should do the trick!
You have wanted short hair or a fresh hair color but you know she will go mental at you and tell you point blank that she likes long hair!
Don’t panic, it’s easy to pass the blame and yes we have done this! Simply do what you want with your hair, no old restrictions just do it without thought because I guess it’s your hair and your not in prison so do it. Now here is the bit you need to get right, go show her angrily and incredibly upset, if you can shed a few crocodile tears even better! Just think Emmy awards or your making the best tik tok clip to a sad song.
I can’t believe these hairdressers, I told them only a trim! This is going to take years to grow back omg I hate it I look like a boy etc etc. Get all her thoughts out together as if you absolutely hate it and don’t know how you will live or even go outside the house looking like you do! Deep down you love it but don’t let her think that for a second.
Her natural instinct will be to calm you down, tell you it’s not that bad and in fact look ok. Let her continue she will keep the compliments coming, trust us. Keep referring to your hairstylist as if they must be on drugs or blind ( it’s fine we have thick skins ). Once the “scene” is complete you leave, still upset and tell her you just don’t feel right and you need to get some new clothes to match the hair and boom you have managed to avoid an argument!